The condition of many young Filipinos today is full of pain, neglect, physical, emotional, verbal, psychological and sexual abuse. They are a lost generation as broken homes proliferate and hundreds of thousands of couples live together without the commitment of marriage, child protection, and child support.
Teenagers and adults have children and they abandon them. Men and women go their own ways and leave the children with aging grandparents who are unable to cope with emotionally disturbed and parentless teenagers.
The abandoned youth are without money, are hungry, need support, friendship, care and a chance of a normal life. They join street gangs to survive. Politicians condemn them as youth with criminal minds. They feel unwanted, rejected, and without any positive future. They seem to have been abandoned by both Church and government.
Alice is a victim of a broken home. Her father abandoned her mother and when she was a 14-year old teenager, he showed up again and took her to live with him in Subic. There, he sexually abused her. When she could take it no longer, she looked for help, but she did not find assistance in the Church or in the government. She got help and protection from a friend and was brought to a charitable child protection shelter. She later filed charges against her biological father.
She is one of hundreds of thousands of children sexually abused daily. An estimated 100,000 girls are trafficked into the sex industry annually, according to Unicef.
Since the pandemic hit the Philippines, much of the evil business has gone online. There, the children are sold like commodities to customers and delivered to hotel rooms or apartments as regular as a pizza delivery. That’s how corrupt this country has become, a children’s playground for online pedophiles sending money for sex from abroad. Local pedophiles are having an endless “fiesta of child abuse.”
The machismo culture has a motto: “Get them young.” The children are sometimes supplied by their parents and frequently abused by their biological father or live-in partner of the mother. Then, they are farmed out to others to abuse. You may not know it but child abuse is as common and as frequent as riding a bus.
The abusers claim the child give consent and they are legally covered. The children in reality cannot freely give consent at a young age but Philippine laws allow sex with a child from 12 years old, one of the lowest in the world. In Japan, it is 13 years old.
The accused use this provision of the penal code as a defense if ever they are charged in court, which is rare and unusual. Parents can pressure the child to say she “loves the older man.” That provision of the penal code is one reason for the proliferation of child sexual abuse and human trafficking of children. Hopefully, the bill that will change the law will be speedily approved by the Senate and it will change the age of consent to 16 years.
One in every four youth — boys and girls — are victims of sexual abuse by biological fathers, grandfathers, relatives, clergy, and local pedophiles. Some parents and relatives sexually abuse their young children online to earn money. Every five minutes, a woman or child is raped, according to research done by the Center for Women’s Resources.
The degradation and abuse is so pervasive in society that seven- to ten-year old boys are influenced and have been caught having raped five- and six-year old girls. They have been influenced by the child sexual abuse material allowed on the servers of the Internet Service Providers and viewed on cellphones and the internet.
What kind of society has the Philippines become? Certainly, not a more virtuous, innocent and morally strong society. Negative and corrupt influence eroded the higher moral values that once infused the culture formed by Gospel values of Christianity in the country. That has radically changed. It is now more of a “faith without action.” One that is dead in many ways.
The institutional Church seems to have abandoned its duty to protect and stand for human rights and children’s and family rights and dignity. Many bishops and conservative priests are silent about clerical child sexual abuse, abuse in the family and society, the spread of sex hotels and trafficking of children and youth. They ignore the plight of young people jailed in sub-human conditions, tortured and abused behind bars.
True Christians, priests, bishops and lay people who are living out the social message of Jesus of Nazareth are being harassed, threatened, jailed and killed.
The government has for the past years descended into a quagmire of corruption and moral degradation, killing suspects with impunity and violating human rights. Too many local governments have supported the sex industry by issuing licenses and permits to bars and clubs and sex hotels, allowing the human trafficking and child abuse to continue and spread.
The children and youth need a vigorous defense from the abuse they suffer. It is all too easy to blame the youth for leaving their homes and living on the streets and stealing to survive. When they have been abused, kicked and beaten and rejected by their unloving parents, where else can they go and survive when all they have is a shirt and shorts? They need to be welcomed, understood, sheltered, affirmed and given a chance to find a life when they have no loving, caring family. That is the one thing that we all desire above all else. It is our duty to give them that chance.
We are called to speak out to protect the children from abuse and take a stand and live out the moral values of the gospel, the sacredness of life and the well-being and human rights and dignity of the people and speak and rally against moral evil in society.
Irish Father Shay Cullen, SSC, established the Preda Foundation in Olongapo City in 1974 to promote human rights and the rights of children, especially victims of sex abuse. The views expressed in this article are the opinions of the author and do not necessarily reflect the editorial stance of LiCAS.news.
