Pope Francis shared a spiritual life hack for discernment at his general audience on Wednesday.
Speaking in St. Peter’s Square on Oct. 5, the pope said that the “spiritual life, too, has its passwords.”
Just like on one’s computer, where “we know how important it is to know the password in order to get into the programs where the most personal and valuable information is stored,” the pope said that discernment requires unlocking “the passwords of our heart.”
Pope Francis underlined that “self-knowledge” is key to discernment. When discerning whom to marry or whether one is called to be a priest or religious sister, the pope said it is important to know what one’s heart is most sensitive to protect oneself from temptation.
He said the devil “knows these passwords well, and it is important that we know them too, so as not to find ourselves where we do not want to be.”
“Temptation does not necessarily suggest bad things, but often disordered things, presented with excessive importance,” the pope said.
“They can be, for example, degrees, careers, relationships, all things that are in themselves praiseworthy, but towards which, if we are not free, we risk having unrealistic expectations, such as the confirmation of our worth. … From this misunderstanding often comes the greatest suffering, because none of those things can be the guarantee of our dignity,” he said.
Pope Francis recommended the practice of an “examination of conscience” to learn and note “what we give most importance to” in daily choices.
Above all, he said that it is crucial to understand what truly “satiates the heart.”
“For only the Lord can give us confirmation of what we are worth. He tells us this every day from the cross: he died for us, to show us how precious we are in his eyes. There is no obstacle or failure that can prevent his tender embrace,” he said.
The pope’s reflection was part of a weekly catechesis series on spiritual discernment that he launched on Aug. 31.
Pope Francis noted that “underlying spiritual doubts and vocational crises” is often a lack of self-knowledge.
The pope quoted Thomas Green’s book on discernment, “Weeds Among the Wheat”: “I have come to the conviction that the greatest obstacle to true discernment (and to real growth in prayer) is not the intangible nature of God, but the fact that we do not know ourselves sufficiently, and do not even want to know ourselves as we really are. Almost all of us hide behind a mask, not only in front of others, but also when we look in the mirror.”
Pope Francis added: “Forgetfulness of God’s presence in our life goes hand in hand with ignorance of ourselves … ignorance of our personality traits and our deepest desires.”
At the end of his general audience, Pope Francis recalled that the Church celebrates the feast of St. Faustina Kowalska on Oct. 5.
“Through her, God directed the world to seek salvation in his mercy. Let us remember this especially today, thinking especially of the war in Ukraine,” he said in his greeting to Polish-speaking pilgrims.
Pope Francis reminded people of his appeal for Ukraine in his Angelus address on Sunday and added: “We trust in God’s mercy, which can change hearts, and in the maternal intercession of the Queen of Peace.”
